Mediation has the power to make us all better
THE POWER OF MEDIATION
Hello everyone, today we begin the
Third Season of the Conflict Resolution
Methods Saga, their intangibles
and their well-being and happiness connection.
Today we will talk about power and
mediation, mediation and power and How
mediation is power.
Mediation is a source of power, it
is a force that generates the empowerment of
people when they turn into it,
because it produces a synergy of forces that make
the mediator an agent of social
change and an agent of peace. It makes mediator
and the mediated person to be
evolutionary factors towards a modern society
since mediation has the power to
generate positive synergies where none exist,
achieving that we can vibrate in
the same frequency, synchronizing in harmony.
The power of mediation is focused
on making us better, improving the quality of
life and realize a subjective
wellbeing of each person, because it strengthens
people´s individuality and
authenticity in a coherent way, in accordance to our
own interests and needs, as well
as the cohesive collectivity.
Human beings live concentric
relationships and influence others, because we have
the power to do so, our simple
presence can motivate changes and influence daily
situations. This influence can be
guided according to our interests consciously or
unconsciously, proactive or
passive, by action or by omission, and during the
process of mediation we positively
influence the mediated persons and they, a
the same time, exponentially do it
with the people around them, generating a
flow of positive energy making
people better; and the interesting thing about this
is that from their own perspective
of life, without affecting others, it also
improves relationships and better
yet, it creates new ones and increases your
interaction level and influence.
Mediation gives the power to live
happy, to generate our well-being and others
well-being, because people have
the power to decide what problems to face,
being part of the solution, as a
main effect generates the empowerment of
people improving their situation
and lifestyle, giving positive vitality to the parties
in its broadest sense, since by
resolving their conflict it reconstitutes their
relationship or relationships. The
empowerment of the parties through mediation
is widely recognized by the
specialized doctrine, being understood as an
intangible value because it
generates balance between the parties and reinforces
self-esteem, generates an
atmosphere of co-responsibility encouraging mutual
respect.
The power of mediation also lies
in the order that it generates, and in the stability
that it brings through assertive
communication, because it goes beyond the
simple transmission of ideas or
preferences, of concepts or personal visions,
mediation gives the power to decide
who we are and who we want to be.
Let´s Imagine that we can have
harmonious relationships, let´s imagine vibrating
and flowing in the same frequency,
let´s imagine seeking our wellbeing and
others´ wellbeing without harming
the interests of anyone, let´s imagine
respecting others and that they do
respect us, let´s imagine a dignified life based
on a pragmatic balance, mutual
respect, in our freedom, in our equality and free
will, and all of this derived from
our power of decision, mediation makes us and
will make us better people, That
is Why mediation is power.
The power of mediation
Power mainly lies in the capacity
of self-decision of human beings, and we have
linked it up as a pro-positive
analogy to mediation since, like power, its virtue lies
in the self-decision capacity of
those who practice it and those who enjoy it.
Power derives from social
relationships, and that, without it, a society or group of
people regardless of their social
bond can exist, so it establishes minimum rules,
being fundamental to achieve order
and freedom, with a balance of ideals, this is
a quid pro quo, which encourages
reciprocity, since the one who holds power
owes it to the coexistence with
others, because of their interests and because of
their perceived subjective well-being.
We affirm then that mediation is
power because it follows this same logic, being a
source of decisions, it has the
capacity to influence others in terms of interests,
reflected in a conflict management
and transformation regime that changes lives,
represented by its method and the
other MSC, because they are techniques that
privilege freedom, free will, the
will of decision of those who practice them, it is a
pro-positive power source that
looks for social well-being from the perspective of
perceived subjective well-being, a
source of happiness and peace, which
generates harmonious coexistence
and social cohesion.
Power and mediation have the same
principle "freedom and free will" which at
the same time is based on
"the human being and his capacity of decision", it is
true that there is an infinity of
social institutions that have generated social
innovations through the times and
Have transformed the world in a positive way,
because of these experiences and
the dimensional synergy of mediation, where
its status as a profession or
science is beginning to be recognized, it is appropriate
to understand mediation as a
source of power that transforms, changes and
improves social conditions of
human beings.
And how through conflicts
management and transformation , mediation in such a
multiple ways generates tangible
effects that dimensionally empowers human
beings and society, having the
power to encourage altruism in people, promote
friendship and love, derived from
the balance between them, this makes that selfesteem and self-realization are
not only an ideal in people but a reality generating
wellbeing and quality of life and
how, from citizenship´s perspective generates
changes not only to an immediate
circle of influence but into others, it means that
I can guide (coaching) those who
believe in me, who come to me for help or those
who depend on me, agreeing on
ideals and ways of life that are affective and
matching with others.
The power of mediation gives us
the possibility of generating a culture of dialogue
and forgiveness through conflict
management, in a broad democratizing sense in
which it is possible for everyone,
through it we have the possibility of living with
dignity and respect, generating
disruptions in our lives that were not possible
before, with economic impact,
allowing us to live with dignity and success in a win
- win context, making mediation a
way of living and a lifestyle.
Mediation has the power to make us
more empathic with our environment and
the people around us, avoiding
this way the scale of negative emotions and
conflicts. The power of mediation
gives us personal growth but also spiritual
growth from our diverse beliefs,
making us believe in our neighbor, promoting
ethical relationships, being
generous and humanistic concerned about others,
stopping worrying about what is
ours, since we will have it all solved, allowing us
to be lenient with others and be
able to live with honor.
The power of mediation gives us
the possibility to innovate, to generate changes
in our lives and in the lives of
others, through its intangible values to achieve our
goals in full freedom, fairly and
equitably.
The power of mediation generates
joy when we solve our conflicts and manage
to repair the damage that has been
done to us or that we have done, to forgive
and to be forgiven, this makes
society to observe us and when they see that this is
working we generate a mentoring
that will cause social order, everyone will want
to mediate when they observe its
benefits and the permanence of its benefits,
reconciling us with those we live
with, work with or love.
The power of mediation generates
in us otherness allowing us to evolve and be
able to change and to be someone
else, to become agents of change, agents of
peace, peacemakers and proactive,
aware of our role and the role we play to
make society to progress, and we
can redeem ourselves from our actions and
omissions, this will lead us to
change our environment in a positive way and
others.
The power of mediation makes us
more resilient to the facts and daily events that
positively or negatively affect
our daily lives, the restorative power of mediation
helps and heals us all in a
synchronous way and makes binding decisions, because
other way all the negative sudden
attacks would avoid it, as well as the positive
effect of the power of mediation
heals us in both ways morally and spiritually.
Mediation has the power to make us
more supportive, more tolerant with our
neighbors, with our families, with
those we love, it makes time an ally by making
us stronger, allowing the
transition from conflicting relationships to harmonious
relationships in a faster, more
efficient and permanent way.
Mediation has the power of truth,
of our truth, this means to give life and shape
to our ideals, without affecting
others under the halo of our truth, just as
happiness is constituted in a
legal truth, our ideals can also be materialized in a
rational, legal, syncretic and
adaptive truth, which will not only give us benefits
but we can share it with others,
in the necessary percentage that my ties allow, or
better said according to the
coincidence of interests involved.
With this I end today... I invite
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culture, let ´s become agents of
change, agents of peace... about the power of
mediation... Until next time!
Dr. Francisco Javier Gorjón Gómez
