THE POWER OF MEDIATION, UANL Dr Francisco Javier Gorjón Gómez, MEDIATION PODCAST,

 

Mediation has the power to make us all better

THE POWER OF MEDIATION     

 

Hello everyone, today we begin the Third Season of the Conflict Resolution

Methods Saga, their intangibles and their well-being and happiness connection.

Today we will talk about power and mediation, mediation and power and How

mediation is power.

 

Mediation is a source of power, it is a force that generates the empowerment of

people when they turn into it, because it produces a synergy of forces that make

the mediator an agent of social change and an agent of peace. It makes mediator

and the mediated person to be evolutionary factors towards a modern society

since mediation has the power to generate positive synergies where none exist,

achieving that we can vibrate in the same frequency, synchronizing in harmony.

The power of mediation is focused on making us better, improving the quality of

life and realize a subjective wellbeing of each person, because it strengthens

people´s individuality and authenticity in a coherent way, in accordance to our

own interests and needs, as well as the cohesive collectivity.

 

Human beings live concentric relationships and influence others, because we have

the power to do so, our simple presence can motivate changes and influence daily

situations. This influence can be guided according to our interests consciously or

unconsciously, proactive or passive, by action or by omission, and during the

process of mediation we positively influence the mediated persons and they, a

the same time, exponentially do it with the people around them, generating a

flow of positive energy making people better; and the interesting thing about this

is that from their own perspective of life, without affecting others, it also

improves relationships and better yet, it creates new ones and increases your

interaction level and influence.

 

Mediation gives the power to live happy, to generate our well-being and others

well-being, because people have the power to decide what problems to face,

being part of the solution, as a main effect generates the empowerment of

people improving their situation and lifestyle, giving positive vitality to the parties

in its broadest sense, since by resolving their conflict it reconstitutes their

relationship or relationships. The empowerment of the parties through mediation

is widely recognized by the specialized doctrine, being understood as an

intangible value because it generates balance between the parties and reinforces

self-esteem, generates an atmosphere of co-responsibility encouraging mutual

respect.

 

The power of mediation also lies in the order that it generates, and in the stability

that it brings through assertive communication, because it goes beyond the

simple transmission of ideas or preferences, of concepts or personal visions,

mediation gives the power to decide who we are and who we want to be.

 

Let´s Imagine that we can have harmonious relationships, let´s imagine vibrating

and flowing in the same frequency, let´s imagine seeking our wellbeing and

others´ wellbeing without harming the interests of anyone, let´s imagine

respecting others and that they do respect us, let´s imagine a dignified life based

on a pragmatic balance, mutual respect, in our freedom, in our equality and free

will, and all of this derived from our power of decision, mediation makes us and

will make us better people, That is Why mediation is power.

 

The power of mediation

Power mainly lies in the capacity of self-decision of human beings, and we have

linked it up as a pro-positive analogy to mediation since, like power, its virtue lies

in the self-decision capacity of those who practice it and those who enjoy it.

 

Power derives from social relationships, and that, without it, a society or group of

people regardless of their social bond can exist, so it establishes minimum rules,

being fundamental to achieve order and freedom, with a balance of ideals, this is

a quid pro quo, which encourages reciprocity, since the one who holds power

owes it to the coexistence with others, because of their interests and because of

their perceived subjective well-being.

 

We affirm then that mediation is power because it follows this same logic, being a

source of decisions, it has the capacity to influence others in terms of interests,

reflected in a conflict management and transformation regime that changes lives,

represented by its method and the other MSC, because they are techniques that

privilege freedom, free will, the will of decision of those who practice them, it is a

pro-positive power source that looks for social well-being from the perspective of

perceived subjective well-being, a source of happiness and peace, which

generates harmonious coexistence and social cohesion.

 

Power and mediation have the same principle "freedom and free will" which at

the same time is based on "the human being and his capacity of decision", it is

true that there is an infinity of social institutions that have generated social

innovations through the times and Have transformed the world in a positive way,

because of these experiences and the dimensional synergy of mediation, where

its status as a profession or science is beginning to be recognized, it is appropriate

to understand mediation as a source of power that transforms, changes and

improves social conditions of human beings.

 

And how through conflicts management and transformation , mediation in such a

multiple ways generates tangible effects that dimensionally empowers human

beings and society, having the power to encourage altruism in people, promote

friendship and love, derived from the balance between them, this makes that selfesteem and self-realization are not only an ideal in people but a reality generating

wellbeing and quality of life and how, from citizenship´s perspective generates

changes not only to an immediate circle of influence but into others, it means that

I can guide (coaching) those who believe in me, who come to me for help or those

who depend on me, agreeing on ideals and ways of life that are affective and

matching with others.

 

The power of mediation gives us the possibility of generating a culture of dialogue

and forgiveness through conflict management, in a broad democratizing sense in

which it is possible for everyone, through it we have the possibility of living with

dignity and respect, generating disruptions in our lives that were not possible

before, with economic impact, allowing us to live with dignity and success in a win

- win context, making mediation a way of living and a lifestyle.

 

Mediation has the power to make us more empathic with our environment and

the people around us, avoiding this way the scale of negative emotions and

conflicts. The power of mediation gives us personal growth but also spiritual

growth from our diverse beliefs, making us believe in our neighbor, promoting

ethical relationships, being generous and humanistic concerned about others,

stopping worrying about what is ours, since we will have it all solved, allowing us

to be lenient with others and be able to live with honor.

 

The power of mediation gives us the possibility to innovate, to generate changes

in our lives and in the lives of others, through its intangible values to achieve our

goals in full freedom, fairly and equitably.

 

The power of mediation generates joy when we solve our conflicts and manage

to repair the damage that has been done to us or that we have done, to forgive

and to be forgiven, this makes society to observe us and when they see that this is

working we generate a mentoring that will cause social order, everyone will want

to mediate when they observe its benefits and the permanence of its benefits,

reconciling us with those we live with, work with or love.

 

The power of mediation generates in us otherness allowing us to evolve and be

able to change and to be someone else, to become agents of change, agents of

peace, peacemakers and proactive, aware of our role and the role we play to

make society to progress, and we can redeem ourselves from our actions and

omissions, this will lead us to change our environment in a positive way and

others.

 

The power of mediation makes us more resilient to the facts and daily events that

positively or negatively affect our daily lives, the restorative power of mediation

helps and heals us all in a synchronous way and makes binding decisions, because

other way all the negative sudden attacks would avoid it, as well as the positive

effect of the power of mediation heals us in both ways morally and spiritually.

 

Mediation has the power to make us more supportive, more tolerant with our

neighbors, with our families, with those we love, it makes time an ally by making

us stronger, allowing the transition from conflicting relationships to harmonious

relationships in a faster, more efficient and permanent way.

 

Mediation has the power of truth, of our truth, this means to give life and shape

to our ideals, without affecting others under the halo of our truth, just as

happiness is constituted in a legal truth, our ideals can also be materialized in a

rational, legal, syncretic and adaptive truth, which will not only give us benefits

but we can share it with others, in the necessary percentage that my ties allow, or

better said according to the coincidence of interests involved.

 

With this I end today... I invite you to spread this recording, in your social

networks, with your contacts, give me a Like, .... help me to create a Mediation

culture, let ´s become agents of change, agents of peace... about the power of

mediation... Until next time!

Dr. Francisco Javier Gorjón Gómez